How to ask for a date in Japanese, Tokyo vs Osaka

When we ask somebody for a date,

in our standard Japanese

we say

‘kondo shokujidemo ikagadesuka?’


which means

‘Why don’t we go out for dinner sometime?’

in a polite way.


And in a casual way,

we would say

‘kondo gohan ikohyo’



On the other hand in Osaka,

people traditionally say

‘ne-chan chaa shibakahen?’


which is a very very casual way to say.

That’s even a bit rude.


But this is more common way to say it nowadays,

‘meshidemo ikahen?’


which also is a casual way,

but it’s not too rude.

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